{"id":3717,"date":"2023-06-08T18:48:29","date_gmt":"2023-06-08T16:48:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aumisme.org\/?post_type=aum_monde&#038;p=3717"},"modified":"2026-10-31T18:39:18","modified_gmt":"2026-10-31T17:39:18","slug":"towards-a-better-world-57-making-room-for-kindness","status":"publish","type":"aum_monde","link":"https:\/\/aumisme.org\/en\/better-world\/towards-a-better-world-57-making-room-for-kindness\/","title":{"rendered":"Towards a Better World #57 Making room for kindness"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/aumisme.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/aum-aumisme-mandarom-Pinky-beachHexam01_06_23.jpg\"\/><\/figure>\n<h2>Towards a Better World #57<\/h2>\n<p>8 June 2023<\/p>\n<p>New post<\/p>\n<h2>Making room for kindness<\/h2>\n<p>All thoughts and actions come together. When they are kind, they strengthen a beneficial current in the world. <a href=\"#_ftn1\">[1]<\/a><br \/>\nEveryone wishes to make their contribution by cultivating positive attitudes. But how can we develop kindness in daily life when quarrels fill us with antipathy and resentment towards someone? <a href=\"#_ftn2\">[2]<\/a><br \/>\nThis short extract from the &#8220;Yoga of kindness&#8221; (<em>Le Yoga de l&#8217;Amour dans la Force<\/em>, p. 45) helps us to look differently at this opponent and to defuse the situation. We can say to ourselves:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&#8220;As so-and-so is, so am I. As I am, so is he. We are both subject to suffering and death.<\/p>\n<p>We are bound to the inexorable law of Life by ignorance and desire.<br \/>Both of us are subject to the law of cause and effect, and whatever wrong we do, we will suffer its effects.<br \/>Why should I blame anyone or call anyone my enemy? Rather, I must purify my mind and wish that he do the same, and so we will both be freed from suffering.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>This reflection calms the mind and helps us take some distance from our emotions, relieving us of hostile feelings. They then give way to a more favourable disposition of listening, understanding and attention to the other, which will improve the tone of the exchanges&#8230; and perhaps even the relationship. <a href=\"#_ftn3\">[3]<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> See post no. 27, &#8220;Choosing one&#8217;s thoughts&#8221;.<br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a> See post no. 39, &#8220;A key of light&#8221;.<br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a> See post no. 5, &#8220;Easing relationships&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>*****<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Towards a Better World #57 8 June 2023 New post Making room for kindness All thoughts and actions come together. 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